So I have not been updating this for a few days and there are multiple reasons why. First, I'm not sure exactly how many people are reading this anyway. Not many are posting replies, so maybe I am doing this just for me, which is ok too, but I really am more interested in getting more parents gabbing on my forum to talk about issues like the ones in my blog.

I have also been busy with doctor appointments for the family this week. It's just been a bad week for that. Next week's not looking much better. It just amazes me how many times I have stepped foot into a doctors office in the past 5 years and then I count how many times were for me, and I can count that one one hand.

Let's see, any child adventures in parenting this week? Oh, yes..... The newest words from Tristan, one of the 5 yr old twins.
I was at work at the time, but believe me, with the crazy technology of the newer cell phones, I get full fledged reports of the terrible things that the kids are doing within seconds, no matter where I am.

Tristan was being kinda bad, so Rachel sent him up to his room to calm down and for a punishment of course. On his way up the stairs he yelled at her to..... "Shut the fuck up!"..... Yeah, I know, where did he learn that from. Well there is the admission that we do use the f-word more than we should, but not really in that context. While Logan (the 13 yr old) DOES know how to swear fluently, you got to love middle school friends, We have found that when Logan is mad, and in one of his Autistic fits of anger, he will swear. So we think the twins picked it up there too.
However, there is also the fact that when Logan is mad, he goes up and will "talk" to the twins about how mean and evil I am. I am sure he has said some pretty nasty things to them.

All of this leads to the one thing that is bothering us the most. Tristan is now in such a mode of hatred for everyone at this time, he is NOT learning the lesson that what he is doing is bad. He has said that he hates us, that he don't love us and his rudeness towards his twin brother right now is terrible.

So yes, this is an entry that I have put off. Then I realized, why am I putting it off? It is the very reason I started a forum and a blog. I need help. And if I need help there are other parents out there that need help too, and that have gone through very similar circumstances that may be able to give advice. That is exactly why the forum was made, and it is exactly why I need you all to come and join and help me, as well as others, while we help you.

Come on in and join us. Do not be intimidated by the fact that there are not that many members. A site/forum has to start somewhere, why not with you?